Episode 512 Let It Go, But Not Like Elsa: Parenting, Gossip, and Growing into Your Best Self

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In this episode, I open up about the challenges and lessons I've faced while learning to let go—especially as a parent of adult children. I share my journey of self-discovery, reflecting on how gossip and judgment often reveal our own insecurities and how trauma can impact our personal relationships in unique ways.

Through my experiences, I’ve come to realize the power of self-reflection, the importance of building a supportive community, and the guidance faith provides during life’s struggles. I explore how embracing change, practicing self-love and forgiveness, and reaching out for help can lead to profound personal growth. My hope is to inspire you to let go, look inward, and trust that you’re never alone on this path.

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Sending love and gratitude this holiday season.

Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 511: Kickstarting 2025 with My Husband, John – Let’s Reflect, Recharge, and Have Some Fun!

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celebrating 2025

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In this episode, I’m diving into the power of shifting our mindset as we step into 2025. It’s all about emotional and mental decluttering—letting go of the stuff that weighs us down—not just the physical clutter. I share some personal stories about releasing outcomes and expectations, learning to embrace independence, and leaning into the beauty of change.

We’ll also talk about spiritual growth and the importance of supporting each other as we navigate the art of letting go. My message is simple: let’s live freely, focus on experiences over material possessions, and create a lighter, more joyful life together.

takeaways

  • This year is about embracing a lighter, freer version of ourselves.

  • Letting go of what no longer serves you is essential.

  • Outcomes are so important in the letting go process.

  • You need to let go of your childish dreams.

  • It drives everyone from us.

  • You wanted us to be independent, and we are independent.

  • Less thinking and more doing.

  • Life is all about enjoying it and walking through all these things.

  • We are going to be nice to ourselves in 2025.

  • Sending lots of love and lots of hugs to you all.

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Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 510 Sober Curious are You Curious

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Me and cam dobbs from inside south florida

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In this episode, I talk about the concept of being 'sober curious' and the challenges that come with alcohol recovery. I share my personal journey with sobriety, the societal pressures surrounding drinking, and why seeking help is so important. I open up about the emotional aspects of quitting alcohol, offer practical tips for navigating sobriety, and highlight the importance of living authentically. I encourage you to take it one day at a time and to embrace vulnerability as you embark on your own sober journey.

takeaways

  • Sober curiosity is becoming more popular as people explore their relationship with alcohol.

  • Elizabeth shares her personal experience of being a blackout drinker and the impact it had on her life.

  • Alcohol is deeply ingrained in society, making sobriety a challenging journey for many.

  • New Year's resolutions often include quitting drinking, but it's important to approach it thoughtfully.

  • Feelings can be overwhelming when quitting alcohol, and it's crucial to seek support.

  • Talking to a doctor before quitting drinking is essential for safety.

  • Living authentically means letting go of societal expectations and embracing who you truly are.

  • Change is difficult, but it's necessary for personal growth and healing.

  • Writing a gratitude list can help maintain a positive mindset during recovery.

  • You are not alone in your struggles with sobriety; support is available.

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Sending love and Happy New Year.

Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 509 Comedian Maggie Hughes DePalo from the Windy City

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It’s Time to Laugh—And Then Laugh Some More!

We’re serving up a heaping dose of hilarity with Maggie, the comedic dynamo straight out of Chicago! 🎤 This south side sensation didn’t find her calling in comedy until later in life—trading her “book club” wine glass for a mic and deadpan wit that will have you rolling in the aisles.

Here’s the deal:
Maggie’s sharp sarcasm and quick punchlines have graced Chicago’s top comedy hotspots like Zanies, Laugh Factory, and Comedy Bar. She’s also rocked private events, corporate gigs, and her own showcase production company, ALL THAT GOOD STUFF—because let’s face it, she knows how to bring the good stuff (and the laughs)!

But wait—Maggie’s no one-trick pony. When she’s not making people snort with laughter, she’s co-leading Bottomline Recruiting & Ellevate Staffing, two badass, female-owned firms specializing in tech and sales recruiting. Who says you can’t be a boss and a boss comedian?

Oh, and did we mention? Maggie’s mom has been sober for decades. Having a sober mom isn’t just awesome—it’s empowering. As Maggie says, “It gave me the freedom to be who I want and do whatever I want—like bomb at an open mic and then keep going!”

🎧 Tune in to this episode for laughs, inspiration, and the inside scoop on how comedy (and sobriety) pave the way for possibilities you never saw coming. Trust us—you don’t want to miss this one!

Spoiler alert: Maggie might just make you spit out your coffee.

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Thanks Maggie for coming on Conversations with Bizzy

Always remember, you're not alone!

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!

With love, 
Elizabeth aka Bizzy 

Episode 508 Holidays Made Simple

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7 years ago! Happy anniversary to us xo

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In this episode, JF and I share the tools and strategies that have helped us stay sober from the very beginning of our recovery to today. Whether you're new to sobriety or a seasoned veteran, these tips will help you navigate the holiday season with confidence and joy!

Here are our top tips to stay grounded and sober during the holidays:

  1. Put Yourself First
    Protect your sobriety like the precious gift it is! Think of it as caring for your loved ones—because when you prioritize your recovery, you’re able to show up for them fully.

  2. Have an Exit Plan
    Holiday gatherings can be full of triggers. If you're feeling uneasy or anxious, don't hesitate to leave—or better yet, skip events that don’t support your well-being. Always have a trusted friend on standby to call when you need support without judgment.

  3. BYOD (Bring Your Own Drink)
    Don’t leave your beverage options up to chance! Bring something festive you love, like our non-alcoholic “Mistletoe” mocktail. Recipe below!

  4. Stay Connected with Support
    AA meetings are available around the clock during the holidays through in-person Alcathons and Zoom meetings. The beauty of Zoom? You can join in your pajamas without even brushing your teeth (a little humor to lighten the mood).

  5. Celebrate Yourself
    Staying sober is an incredible accomplishment. Each sober hour, day, or week is the best gift you could ever give yourself. Be proud and take time to recognize your strength!

  6. Don’t Forget to Have Fun
    Rule 62: Don’t take yourself too seriously. Celebrate your progress, embrace the joy of the season, and remember how far you’ve come

Mistletoe Mocktail Recipe

A fun and festive drink to enjoy at any holiday gathering!

  • Ingredients:

    • Cranberry Simple Syrup

    • Jalapeño Simple Syrup

    • Sparkling Water

    • Fresh Cranberries

    • A sprig of Rosemary or Fresh Mint

  • Simple Syrup Instructions:

    • Combine 1 cup of sugar and 1 cup of water in a saucepan.

    • Add sliced jalapeños for a spicy kick or cranberries for a sweet twist.

    • Simmer until the sugar dissolves, then strain and cool.

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Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 507 Healing, Sobriety, and Self-Compassion: A Conversation with Arlina Allen

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In this heartfelt episode, I welcome back Arlina Allen to dive deep into sobriety, spirituality, and healing from childhood trauma. We explore misconceptions about 12-step programs, the power of forgiveness, and the importance of self-compassion and rest in recovery. With personal stories and insights, we discuss navigating family dynamics, overcoming limiting beliefs, and finding love and kindness—especially during the holidays.

takeaways

  • Sobriety is not just for those who hit rock bottom.

  • Sober curiosity can lead to deeper self-discovery.

  • 12-step programs are about the steps, not just meetings.

  • Personal experiences shape our understanding of addiction.

  • Spirituality can play a crucial role in recovery.

  • Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on behavior.

  • Self-compassion is essential during the healing process.

  • Limiting beliefs can hinder recovery and personal growth.

  • Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

  • Finding a supportive community is vital for recovery. The need for acceptance and love can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms.

  • Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on self-image and relationships.

  • Forgiveness is essential for personal healing and growth.

  • Self-compassion is crucial in overcoming feelings of shame and guilt.

  • Navigating family dynamics can be challenging, especially during recovery.

  • The impact of societal expectations on personal choices and mental health.

  • Understanding that parents often do their best with the tools they have.

  • The importance of open communication about feelings and needs in relationships.

  • Recognizing the role of fear in decision-making and its unsustainable nature.

  • The journey of sobriety is unique for everyone and requires self-care.

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To Reach Arlina

Founder of Sober Life School

Host of The One Day At A Time Podcast

Author of “The 12 Step Guide For Skeptics”

Thank you Arlina for coming on my show.

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Sending love and gratitude this holiday season.

Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 506 Finding Joy and Peace This Holiday Season

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In this special holiday episode of Conversations with Bizzy, I reflect on the magic of the season and share why gratitude, joy, and self-care are so important this time of year. I talk about the challenges of comparing ourselves on social media, the importance of giving ourselves permission to indulge a little, and the beauty of receiving love and kindness.

I want to remind you to find joy in the little moments, set personal goals that matter to you, and spread kindness wherever you can. Most importantly, remember this: you are never alone, and someone loves you. So, grab a cozy blanket, take a deep breath, and let’s celebrate the light and love of this season together.

takeaways

·       Every day is a gift, and we should embrace it.

·       Gratitude lists can deepen over time, reflecting personal growth.

·       Finding joy in simple activities can enhance our lives.

·       Social media can lead to negative comparisons; focus on your own journey.

·       Self-care is essential, especially during the busy holiday season.

·       Reflecting on the year can help set meaningful goals for the future.

·       Indulging during the holidays is okay; be kind to yourself.

·       Receiving love and gifts can be challenging, practice acceptance.

·       Spreading joy and kindness can create a positive ripple effect.

·       You are not alone; there is always someone who cares.

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Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 505 The Road Unpaved: Risa August Resilience, Healing, and Life After a Brain Tumor

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Risa august

In this episode of Conversations with Bizzy, Risa August shares her incredible journey of resilience and self-discovery after being diagnosed with a brain tumor. From her initial struggles with misdiagnosis to finding the right medical support, Risa emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself in healthcare. She discusses the role of faith and spirituality in her recovery, the challenges of accepting help, and the profound impact of community support. Risa's story culminates in her decision to embark on a transformative biking journey along the Pacific Coast, symbolizing her renewed zest for life and adventure. In this conversation, Risa August shares her transformative journey of healing and self-discovery following a life-altering diagnosis. She discusses the challenges of maintaining her physical and mental health while pursuing her passion for cycling. Risa emphasizes the importance of Gestalt therapy in her healing process, the significance of setting boundaries in her relationships, and the power of gratitude and joy in her daily life. She also highlights her journey of writing her book, 'The Road Unpaved,' as a means of sharing her story and connecting with others.

Takeaways

o   Advocate for yourself in healthcare.

o   Asking for help shows strength.

o   Spirituality and community aid recovery.

o   Healing is a journey, not a destination.

o   Letting go of old beliefs fosters growth.

o   Adventure and goals inspire healing.

o   Gratitude and joy transform perspectives.

o   Sharing your story builds connections.

o   Prioritize your healing and set boundaries.

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Sending love and gratitude

XO

Bizzy

Episode 504 Boundaries for a Peaceful Holiday

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Join me in this heartfelt episode as I dive into the challenges of maintaining healthy boundaries during the holiday season. Through personal stories and practical tips, I explore how to navigate family dynamics, manage emotional stress, and set meaningful limits. Discover how embracing your feelings and prioritizing your well-being can lead to a more peaceful and joyful holiday experience.

Takeaways

  • Boundaries are essential for emotional health, especially during the holidays.

  • Feelings are temporary and should not dictate our actions.

  • It's important to focus on the relationships that bring us joy.

  • Setting boundaries can prevent holiday stress and anxiety.

  • Communicate your boundaries clearly to family and friends.

  • Self-care is crucial during the busy holiday season.

  • Embrace the reality of your family dynamics, even if they differ from idealized versions.

  • Letting go of past expectations can lead to greater peace.

  • Establishing rules in your home can create a more enjoyable environment.

  • Finding joy in small moments can enhance your holiday experience.

Here is the link that I promised in my show about letting go.

Day 1: Leave Your Cares To Me" session in Hallow: https://hallow.app.link/eq3bITEIdPb

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Sending love and gratitude

XO

Bizzy