Episode 510 Sober Curious are You Curious

Me and cam dobbs from inside south florida

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In this episode, I talk about the concept of being 'sober curious' and the challenges that come with alcohol recovery. I share my personal journey with sobriety, the societal pressures surrounding drinking, and why seeking help is so important. I open up about the emotional aspects of quitting alcohol, offer practical tips for navigating sobriety, and highlight the importance of living authentically. I encourage you to take it one day at a time and to embrace vulnerability as you embark on your own sober journey.

takeaways

• Sober curiosity is becoming more popular as people explore their relationship with alcohol.

• Elizabeth shares her personal experience of being a blackout drinker and the impact it had on her life.

• Alcohol is deeply ingrained in society, making sobriety a challenging journey for many.

• New Year's resolutions often include quitting drinking, but it's important to approach it thoughtfully.

• Feelings can be overwhelming when quitting alcohol, and it's crucial to seek support.

• Talking to a doctor before quitting drinking is essential for safety.

• Living authentically means letting go of societal expectations and embracing who you truly are.

• Change is difficult, but it's necessary for personal growth and healing.

• Writing a gratitude list can help maintain a positive mindset during recovery.

• You are not alone in your struggles with sobriety; support is available.

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Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 509 Comedian Maggie Hughes DePalo from the Windy City

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It’s Time to Laugh—And Then Laugh Some More!

We’re serving up a heaping dose of hilarity with Maggie, the comedic dynamo straight out of Chicago! 🎤 This south side sensation didn’t find her calling in comedy until later in life—trading her “book club” wine glass for a mic and deadpan wit that will have you rolling in the aisles.

Here’s the deal:
Maggie’s sharp sarcasm and quick punchlines have graced Chicago’s top comedy hotspots like Zanies, Laugh Factory, and Comedy Bar. She’s also rocked private events, corporate gigs, and her own showcase production company, ALL THAT GOOD STUFF—because let’s face it, she knows how to bring the good stuff (and the laughs)!

But wait—Maggie’s no one-trick pony. When she’s not making people snort with laughter, she’s co-leading Bottomline Recruiting & Ellevate Staffing, two badass, female-owned firms specializing in tech and sales recruiting. Who says you can’t be a boss and a boss comedian?

Oh, and did we mention? Maggie’s mom has been sober for decades. Having a sober mom isn’t just awesome—it’s empowering. As Maggie says, “It gave me the freedom to be who I want and do whatever I want—like bomb at an open mic and then keep going!”

🎧 Tune in to this episode for laughs, inspiration, and the inside scoop on how comedy (and sobriety) pave the way for possibilities you never saw coming. Trust us—you don’t want to miss this one!

Spoiler alert: Maggie might just make you spit out your coffee.

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Thanks Maggie for coming on Conversations with Bizzy

Always remember, you're not alone!

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!

With love, 
Elizabeth aka Bizzy 

Episode 508 Holidays Made Simple

7 years ago! Happy anniversary to us xo

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In this episode, JF and I share the tools and strategies that have helped us stay sober from the very beginning of our recovery to today. Whether you're new to sobriety or a seasoned veteran, these tips will help you navigate the holiday season with confidence and joy!

Here are our top tips to stay grounded and sober during the holidays:

1. Put Yourself First
   Protect your sobriety like the precious gift it is! Think of it as caring for your loved ones—because when you prioritize your recovery, you’re able to show up for them fully.

2. Have an Exit Plan
   Holiday gatherings can be full of triggers. If you're feeling uneasy or anxious, don't hesitate to leave—or better yet, skip events that don’t support your well-being. Always have a trusted friend on standby to call when you need support without judgment.

3. BYOD (Bring Your Own Drink)
   Don’t leave your beverage options up to chance! Bring something festive you love, like our non-alcoholic “Mistletoe” mocktail. Recipe below!

4. Stay Connected with Support
   AA meetings are available around the clock during the holidays through in-person Alcathons and Zoom meetings. The beauty of Zoom? You can join in your pajamas without even brushing your teeth (a little humor to lighten the mood).

5. Celebrate Yourself
   Staying sober is an incredible accomplishment. Each sober hour, day, or week is the best gift you could ever give yourself. Be proud and take time to recognize your strength!

6. Don’t Forget to Have Fun
   Rule 62: Don’t take yourself too seriously. Celebrate your progress, embrace the joy of the season, and remember how far you’ve come

Mistletoe Mocktail Recipe

A fun and festive drink to enjoy at any holiday gathering!

• Ingredients:

• Cranberry Simple Syrup

• Jalapeño Simple Syrup

• Sparkling Water

• Fresh Cranberries

• A sprig of Rosemary or Fresh Mint

• Simple Syrup Instructions:

• Combine 1 cup of sugar and 1 cup of water in a saucepan.

• Add sliced jalapeños for a spicy kick or cranberries for a sweet twist.

• Simmer until the sugar dissolves, then strain and cool.

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Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 507 Healing, Sobriety, and Self-Compassion: A Conversation with Arlina Allen

In this heartfelt episode, I welcome back Arlina Allen to dive deep into sobriety, spirituality, and healing from childhood trauma. We explore misconceptions about 12-step programs, the power of forgiveness, and the importance of self-compassion and rest in recovery. With personal stories and insights, we discuss navigating family dynamics, overcoming limiting beliefs, and finding love and kindness—especially during the holidays.

takeaways

• Sobriety is not just for those who hit rock bottom.

• Sober curiosity can lead to deeper self-discovery.

• 12-step programs are about the steps, not just meetings.

• Personal experiences shape our understanding of addiction.

• Spirituality can play a crucial role in recovery.

• Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on behavior.

• Self-compassion is essential during the healing process.

• Limiting beliefs can hinder recovery and personal growth.

• Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

• Finding a supportive community is vital for recovery. The need for acceptance and love can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms.

• Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on self-image and relationships.

• Forgiveness is essential for personal healing and growth.

• Self-compassion is crucial in overcoming feelings of shame and guilt.

• Navigating family dynamics can be challenging, especially during recovery.

• The impact of societal expectations on personal choices and mental health.

• Understanding that parents often do their best with the tools they have.

• The importance of open communication about feelings and needs in relationships.

• Recognizing the role of fear in decision-making and its unsustainable nature.

• The journey of sobriety is unique for everyone and requires self-care.

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To Reach Arlina

Founder of Sober Life School

Host of The One Day At A Time Podcast

Author of “The 12 Step Guide For Skeptics”

Thank you Arlina for coming on my show.

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Sending love and gratitude this holiday season.

Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 506 Finding Joy and Peace This Holiday Season

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In this special holiday episode of Conversations with Bizzy, I reflect on the magic of the season and share why gratitude, joy, and self-care are so important this time of year. I talk about the challenges of comparing ourselves on social media, the importance of giving ourselves permission to indulge a little, and the beauty of receiving love and kindness.

I want to remind you to find joy in the little moments, set personal goals that matter to you, and spread kindness wherever you can. Most importantly, remember this: you are never alone, and someone loves you. So, grab a cozy blanket, take a deep breath, and let’s celebrate the light and love of this season together.

takeaways

·       Every day is a gift, and we should embrace it.

·       Gratitude lists can deepen over time, reflecting personal growth.

·       Finding joy in simple activities can enhance our lives.

·       Social media can lead to negative comparisons; focus on your own journey.

·       Self-care is essential, especially during the busy holiday season.

·       Reflecting on the year can help set meaningful goals for the future.

·       Indulging during the holidays is okay; be kind to yourself.

·       Receiving love and gifts can be challenging, practice acceptance.

·       Spreading joy and kindness can create a positive ripple effect.

·       You are not alone; there is always someone who cares.

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Sending love and gratitude this holiday season.

Love,

Elizabeth “Bizzy” Chance

Episode 505 The Road Unpaved: Risa August Resilience, Healing, and Life After a Brain Tumor

Risa august

In this episode of Conversations with Bizzy, Risa August shares her incredible journey of resilience and self-discovery after being diagnosed with a brain tumor. From her initial struggles with misdiagnosis to finding the right medical support, Risa emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself in healthcare. She discusses the role of faith and spirituality in her recovery, the challenges of accepting help, and the profound impact of community support. Risa's story culminates in her decision to embark on a transformative biking journey along the Pacific Coast, symbolizing her renewed zest for life and adventure. In this conversation, Risa August shares her transformative journey of healing and self-discovery following a life-altering diagnosis. She discusses the challenges of maintaining her physical and mental health while pursuing her passion for cycling. Risa emphasizes the importance of Gestalt therapy in her healing process, the significance of setting boundaries in her relationships, and the power of gratitude and joy in her daily life. She also highlights her journey of writing her book, 'The Road Unpaved,' as a means of sharing her story and connecting with others.

Takeaways

o   Advocate for yourself in healthcare.

o   Asking for help shows strength.

o   Spirituality and community aid recovery.

o   Healing is a journey, not a destination.

o   Letting go of old beliefs fosters growth.

o   Adventure and goals inspire healing.

o   Gratitude and joy transform perspectives.

o   Sharing your story builds connections.

o   Prioritize your healing and set boundaries.

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Sending love and gratitude

XO

Bizzy

Episode 504 Boundaries for a Peaceful Holiday

Join me in this heartfelt episode as I dive into the challenges of maintaining healthy boundaries during the holiday season. Through personal stories and practical tips, I explore how to navigate family dynamics, manage emotional stress, and set meaningful limits. Discover how embracing your feelings and prioritizing your well-being can lead to a more peaceful and joyful holiday experience.

Takeaways

• Boundaries are essential for emotional health, especially during the holidays.

• Feelings are temporary and should not dictate our actions.

• It's important to focus on the relationships that bring us joy.

• Setting boundaries can prevent holiday stress and anxiety.

• Communicate your boundaries clearly to family and friends.

• Self-care is crucial during the busy holiday season.

• Embrace the reality of your family dynamics, even if they differ from idealized versions.

• Letting go of past expectations can lead to greater peace.

• Establishing rules in your home can create a more enjoyable environment.

• Finding joy in small moments can enhance your holiday experience.

Here is the link that I promised in my show about letting go.

Day 1: Leave Your Cares To Me" session in Hallow: https://hallow.app.link/eq3bITEIdPb

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XO

Bizzy

Episode 503 Redefining Elegance with Amanda Thomson – Founder of Noughty, the Non-Alcoholic, No-Sugar-Added Champagne and Wine

In this engaging conversation, I welcome Amanda Thomson, founder of Noughty, to discuss the evolution of non-alcoholic beverages, particularly Noughty's growth and the challenges faced in the entrepreneurial landscape.

We explore the cultural shift towards non-alcoholic options, the importance of quality ingredients, and the journey of creating a product that caters to both health-conscious consumers and those seeking celebratory alternatives.

Our discussion also touches on targeting younger generations and the future of Noughty's product offerings.

takeaways

• Noughty has expanded its availability across major retailers in the US.

• The non-alcoholic beverage market is growing as more people choose to drink less or not at all.

• Quality ingredients, particularly low sugar and organic options are crucial for health-conscious consumers.

• Entrepreneurship involves constant challenges that can become part of a brand's DNA.

• Cultural differences in alcohol consumption impact market strategies for non-alcoholic brands.

• Younger generations are increasingly interested in non-alcoholic alternatives due to social media influence.

• Celebration can be achieved without alcohol, providing inclusivity for all.

• The importance of branding and packaging in attracting consumers to non-alcoholic options.

• Noughty aims to create a product that feels celebratory and elegant without the alcohol.

• Future product innovations include an elevated red wine and improved packaging for existing products.

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Linkedin  Thomson & Scott

Thank you, Amanda, for coming on Conversations with Bizzy.

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Sending love and gratitude

XO

Bizzy

Episode 502 Holiday Magic, Faith, and Forgiveness

Hey, friends! In today’s episode, I’m diving deep into a few things that have been on my heart lately starting with forgiveness. Why is it so hard to forgive? I share my thoughts on why letting go of resentment can be such a struggle and how I’ve learned (and continue to learn) to practice self-forgiveness. It’s not easy, but it’s so worth it.

With the holidays just around the corner, I talk about the challenges of staying sober during this festive yet triggering time. I share practical tips and personal stories about how I navigate holiday parties, family gatherings, and all the emotions that come with this season.

And, of course, I couldn’t do this without talking about faith—the anchor that keeps me grounded. I reflect on how leaning into God and community has been my saving grace, especially when life feels overwhelming.

This episode is all about letting go of shame, embracing who we are, and finding joy in the little things. I hope it encourages you to approach this holiday season with love, resilience, and maybe a little extra sparkle. Let’s do this together!

takeaways

• Thanksgiving can be a time for community and connection.

• Forgiveness is a personal journey that can be challenging.

• Carrying resentments is like holding a hot potato.

• Staying sober during the holidays can improve family dynamics.

• Connection and community are essential for mental health.

• It's important to let go of past grievances.

• Building friendships requires vulnerability and openness.

• Faith can provide strength during difficult times.

• Being present in the moment is crucial for well-being.

• Sharing experiences can foster deeper connections.

To join the Bible Study, go to my Patreon you pick your membership from free to $20 a month. I would love the support. All the information you need is on Patreon and if you have any questions or comments email me at elizabeth@elizabethchance.com

Thanks for listening. Remember you need to speak to your medical doctor before making any changes in your life.

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Sending love and gratitude

XO

Bizzy